Eliminate Negative False Identities

(Change Your Self Concept)

The most important step in becoming the person you want to be, is eliminating everything that you are not. Your natural state is happy, free, abundant and fulfilled in your authentic self expression.

Unfortunately, every single one of us has experienced upsets, traumas and unwanted circumstances. When we were faced with these situations, we developed subconscious identities to protect ourselves. These parts were created as a trauma response to an unwanted emotional upset and carry negative beliefs about ourselves i.e. "I'm not good enough, I'm unlovable or I can't trust people." They are not the real you. They are false identities you created to cope with the upset. These negative identities react according to the beliefs they took on in a moment of weakness and vulnerability. And they drain your energy that would otherwise be available to manifest the life you want and deserve.

These identities have their own operating systems that run like automatic programs whenever triggered by anything that even whiffs of suspicion or danger. A stimulus, real or imagined, can initiate a series of memories, emotions, thoughts and conclusions that often lead to anxiety, anger or unwanted behavior. It's like an outdated protocol that keeps taking us over and over to where we've already been but where we no longer want to go.

The series of supporting memories and emotions form a neural pathway that always leads to the same place: anger, jealousy, fear or procrastination to name a few. There may be multiple stations to board the train but it always has the same destination. Once you hop on, it unfailingly takes you to crazy town.

But what if you were able to blow up part of the train track? You might hop on but it would never reach its destination because it got derailed. By rewiring neural pathways and deleting negative identities, your brain essentially can no longer take you where it's always taken you. Your brain "forgets" how to do anger or anxiety or procrastination.

This is the gold standard. To be unable to recreate the problem or issue in the same way ever again. No fighting with yourself, no need for will power, no figuring it out. You just can't get there any more. The railway to crazy town is in-op.

Teachings about manifestation emphasize that the key to success is stepping into a new self concept where you already have what you desire. This sounds good but when you have negative identities hiding out in your subconscious that you aren't even aware of, it can definitely be easier said than done. By bringing to light and eliminating the parts of your psyche working against you, it becomes natural to step into the version of you that you want to be.

Stop The Train In Its Tracks

(Change Neural Pathways)

Why Hypnotherapy and NLP?

Because it works. Making changes in the subconscious mind requires communicating with the subconscious mind in the language it understands. Your conscious mind thinks in words and logic. It's strategy is to talk about the problem, analyze the problem or diagnose the problem. The subconscious mind thinks in pictures, symbolism and emotion. It simply doesn't understand words and logic in the same way and cannot use them to create useful change.

Imagine trying to explain something in English to someone who only speaks Japanese (without using mime or body language). How many times would you have to tell them before they understood what you were saying? Infinity, right? Doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result is the definition of - well - insanity. (Einstein's words, not mine) Out of the box solutions require out of the box approaches. Come prepared for something completely different.

The Transformative Power of

Rescuing Your Inner Child

We all have a child inside of us that was hurt, neglected, abused or shamed. This part of us is frozen in time, waiting for someone to come and rescue them, to let them know that they're worthy of protection and love. Back then, it wasn't safe to express how they felt or maybe they just didn't know how. No one told them it's okay to feel that way. Nobody listened. They're waiting for you.

This hidden part of us often projects its need to be cared for onto others. The illusion is that if we can save or protect someone else from suffering, it makes our world feel a little safer and salves our own pain, if only for a moment.

This can lead to co-dependent relationships as we vacillate between the roles of victim, judge and rescuer. The cycle can repeat indefinitely until we truly heal and rescue our own inner child, take our power back and neutralize the negative emotions and beliefs that they have been carrying all this time.

The process is sweet, tender, empowering and liberating. Doesn't your inner child deserve to finally have someone answer their cries for help and show them they're worth it? Waiting for a knight in shining armor or the love of a beautiful woman isn't the solution. True love is an inside job. The solution is You.

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Understanding is the consolation prize. Just because we understand the problem doesn't mean we know how to change it. Making changes in the subconscious mind bypasses logic and reason and really changes it in a way that makes our lives better.

Serena

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